You get what you have settled for. You decide where you end up. When I got out of the hospital, having spent seven weeks in bed, I had no muscles to speak of. My muscles had lost all of their strength. It was early last year that a hospital stay erased all of the strength out of all of my muscles. What happened after that was all on me. The hospital staff did their best to get me ready. But there was no way that I could understand just how weak I was. Sure, I was taking daily walks around the hospital. But, once I got home, I found out just how deep the loss of strength had hit me. I went to go up a short flight of stairs. It felt like my body was made out of bags of cement. It was very difficult for me to try…
From a Struggle to a Gift What have you been carrying? So, I have been delving into my family dynamic lately. Focusing on my Father. My dad was a WWII vet that fought in the Pacific Campaign. The emotional demands of intense battle, that impaled him in the theater of war, turned out to be quite the gift for me. But I spent most my life not knowing that. My Father was a very intense man. With fierce resolve, tenacity, focus, determination, courage, etc. These traits, as far as I can tell, were not part of his demeanor before he entered the war. Perhaps you are familiar with the HBO series, “A Band of Brothers”, which followed men who fought in the European Campaign of WWII. The makers of that series then made a similar series, called “The Pacific”, which followed several men as they fought in the Pacific Campaign.…
