Blame, itself, deserves the Blame Nobody’s fault but mine It can be easy to blame someone or something for your situation. I mean, if all three of your wives have cheated on you, then it must not be you. Or, all of my husbands have had an affair on me. So, it can’t be me … right? Many people want themselves “off the hook.” It’s not my fault. In other words, there seems to be a freedom in blaming others. Oh, did I say freedom? I meant prison. There is an aspect of karma that isn’t talked about very much. You get back what you put out. Perfect, then since I didn’t cheat on my partner, it must be their fault that they cheated on me. Sorry. It doesn’t work that way. We have a whole different side of ourselves. On one side, we have our “selves.” This is who…