Nobody’s fault but Mine
You create Your experience
There is a bit of a lag of sorts. A temporal displacement. At least it can seem that way. In other words, once we have accumulated a lot of pent-up karma in our subconscious, it can seem like we are living in a rigid pattern of life. Our life takes on a seemingly consistent nature to it. And from that, our minds can believe that life is just “that way.” Where our karmic experiences are repeating themselves over and over.
To compound that, we can have karma from past lives that anchor a repetitive pattern in ourselves, and thus into our life experiences as well. This can give us a sense of being a “victim” of our experiences. Where our conscious mind can’t connect the dots as to why “bad things” keep happening to us.
Perhaps it is the third divorce, where yet again your spouse ended up cheating on you, just like all the previous ones. “I didn’t force them to cheat on me. (Therefore) it’s not my fault.” But karma has a way to show you unresolved karmic stigmas that have accumulated in your psyche. Our subconscious is a very powerful player in our life experiences. Until it is not.
If you are a brand new soul, only a few seconds old, there isn’t much karma that has accumulated in your psyche. But live a little. OK, live a lot. Throw in a few hundred incarnations. Maybe even more than a thousand incarnations. Now, well NOW, we have layer upon layer of karmic stigmas in our subconscious. We have several core karmic stigmas that tend to shape our experience of our life, or lives.
When we meet people, we (subconsciously) announce ourselves. This interaction is typically below the radar to our ego or mind. There is a subconscious energetic exchange of each other’s karmic profile. In other words, when we meet someone and they feel “comfortable” to us, it doesn’t mean they are karmically pure. But rather, that they are similar to our own karmic collage. There is a resonance of sorts. Your karma is like my karma kind of thing. We are attracted to karmic teachers. Karmic mirrors, really. Where who we are attracted to will, most likely, bring our own karma to the surface.
When we see repetitive patterns in our relationships, we are seeing this karmic matchmaking of sorts. Where we attract people that resonate with our own karma. The karma that we loaded ourselves up with. That WE LOADED UP within ourselves. We created our karmic profile. All of our own karma is of our own doing.
But again, this is where our conscious mind/ego doesn’t have the subconscious element in our awareness. And we think, these things keep happening to us, and not because of us. That is folly. We create all of our karma and we experience life through the metaphorical lens of our own karma.
Once a soul has incarnated many, many times, there are many layers to our karmic accumulations. Some of the karma that we experience in our everyday life was anchored there from past lives. Where we have forgotten what we have picked up along the way. Where some of the core karmic lessons, or reflections, that we are trying to resolve are off our conscious radar. Until we see them as patterns in our own life. Like the example I gave in the beginning. “All of my spouses (karmic teachers) have cheated on me.” Which, perhaps, stems from abandonment issues from our past lives. We will keep playing out these karmic scenarios until we resolve the underlying karma that keeps creating the same condition and thus experiences. We are never karmically stuck. Sure, we can bump up against the same karmic issues, even over several lifetimes, but they always resolve themselves eventually.
The life you experience is the place where you will see the subconscious karmic elements playing themselves out. Look for the patterns in your experiences. Those are a reflection of your karma.
Love You
Les
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